One of the major decisions to make is to decide to work with a coach; however, it is essential to find a match between the various capabilities of the life coach and if their skills are right for your situation. Dr. Jalal Mouti is a senior certified professional coach who can help you identify what it is what you really want and create a personal plan that helps you find success.
So, do you need a life coach?
Coaching is a process that focuses on the “here and now”. As simple as it sounds, coaching can change your life.
I know you are tired of hearing about changing your life and be your own leader thing, but the problem is that you did not complete the whole process to see the difference, the results. A process is all about patience and time.
Instead of talking about your fears and your bad experiences, a life coach will get you through them and live with your fears until it is just another problem you faced. That seems magical right? Well, coaching is as real as it can be. It is the most efficient way to use your own skills for breaking into a completely different life. Since you are considering having a professional coach, then you have to understand the basics of change, the ones you are going to work on and that are already in YOU. Here are some:
You need to know that you can have a positive attitude, but the things you are doing everyday “habits” are ruining you. Finding success is a 2-way street. You need to make changes, efforts and start acting in order to get what you want. Then let your attitude, performance, and skills speak for you. You cannot have what you don’t work for.
You are your coach’s partner. He will help with his professional skills and you need to follow up to discover yours. Your skills are the key to a successful life. That is why he will help you identify the problem, and face it! Talking about it can actually make things worse and keep you traumatized. Your skills are there to discover, you are just looking in the wrong place. And this is where the coach’s part comes.
A good coach will give you guidance and tips. He will listen to you and start working with you immediately. He is not going to make an unnecessary drama about whatever experience you had, nor ask you to bring up your past. You are taking the wheel, and he is going to be there to help you.
Anxiety, depression or any other disorder are treatable if you have the right recipe. Medication can be helpful for a while, but working on yourself is a lifetime gain.
Working on yourself is a game-changer.
You are already a leader, but you are still hiding in the shadows. Your coach will be there to pull you through.
Coaching can help you in your personal and professional life, but you need to understand that both parts work together. You cannot have a brilliant career if your mind does not believe you can actually make it, and you cannot be happy if you do not accomplish your goals. See?
First, you need to clear your mind and set your goals. It is necessary to know exactly what you want to do and especially what you love to do. Because loving what you do is the magical ingredient that starts up the fire. Your coach also knows how to bring a special part about you to remember it during the whole process. Not to mention your strengths and capacities.
For a flourishing career, you need to have an idea and a plan. Your coach is the source of your inspiration and motivation. He is trained enough to know proven strategies that will definitely make your work grows.
A business idea needs time and research. Your coach will provide you with the necessary tips and tools in order to help you save time and money. A life coach has all the techniques to help you figure this out and will make sure to help you turn your passions into a business. Then comes the actionable plan. You need to have all the details about your work and the necessary steps for its growth. He knows where and when to take the risk.
A life coach will not only guide you and support you to achieve what you want, but he will also help you realize the things you think you need but you do not. He will help you cut down on useless efforts and habits.
This is what real coaching is all about: a profound change using your skills and developing others.
All these things will help you become the leader of your life. And remember, you are HERE and NOW.